You posted the links in various threads. I kinda followed your posts around, hoping to get to the bottom of it.
I had your launcher and so far it's the closest I've gotten to the game working.
I think you're right that I got the game to work using ts-ddraw, but the framerate was poor. I wish there was some way to get the game to work but I think this laptop + O.S makes it impossible short of doing something like setting up a virtual machine maybe...
Good news is that Red Alert works.