StagBeetleHarvister Posted April 21, 2018 Share Posted April 21, 2018 (edited) Just thought it needs to be said, not many people that are selfless and good hearted as he just acted, infact ive never seen it before online. Just thought it warranted some attention. I nominate him highly as a good character. I know its not a question but I just thought it deserved a thread because there's so many threads about bad characters griefing others and its so rare to find a good character in the community. Edited April 21, 2018 by StagBeetleHarvister 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nariac Posted April 21, 2018 Share Posted April 21, 2018 If only Chem was still around. I miss that guy. We need someone to be his spiritual successor and carry the torch. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myg Posted April 21, 2018 Share Posted April 21, 2018 Kudos to the man. Helping others in distress is very virtuos. We should all strive to help others. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StagBeetleHarvister Posted April 21, 2018 Author Share Posted April 21, 2018 9 hours ago, nariac said: If only Chem was still around. I miss that guy. We need someone to be his spiritual successor and carry the torch. I have a feeling he is on a covert operation, 007 style, master of disguises that chem, I don't like him personally but hes strong 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BluySY Posted April 21, 2018 Share Posted April 21, 2018 Thank you everyone and I feel lucky to be part of such great community and I'm so happy that my favorite game has made such a big come back. With great appreciation BluySY 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StagBeetleHarvister Posted April 30, 2018 Author Share Posted April 30, 2018 (edited) Turns out hes a troll, that picture is something he trolled someone with a long time ago, he enjoys making people angry in the community, he did help me when I was down though. But hes the type of guy that is nice nice nice then he gets his hits in, denies it goes back to being nice to fool you before getting more hits in. The being nice allows him to get more anger out of you than if he was just plain mean its also a way of being deceptive ie to fool people into thinking hes a good guy. I was wrong hes an emotional vampire! Im not annoyed with him or anything this isn't an attack, its the truth, ive delt with some nasty toxic people in my time im getting good at spotting them, they use kindness and empathy as a deceptive weapon these types! He will deny it and protest innocence but that very picture in his avatar is all the evidence you need, that's a troll job hes very proud of in the past,. (mainly a funny one that isn't very abusive granted) I don't want to break the rules but I thought it was important to not mislead people into thinking he was a good guy I was wrong I was fooled, I don't want people to be victimised by him because of my thread, where I got it wrong! BlySY I have no problem with you but I do care about other people, and don't want them to get victimised by you (especially because of my thread) because you are down or something over your life circumstances, its not their fault you are angry or have an injury from judo that's messed your life up, so they don't deserve the abuse. Edited April 30, 2018 by StagBeetleHarvister 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BluySY Posted April 30, 2018 Share Posted April 30, 2018 (edited) ok good for you Edited April 30, 2018 by BluySY Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ore_truck Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 On 4/30/2018 at 3:17 PM, StagBeetleHarvister said: Turns out hes a troll, that picture is something he trolled someone with a long time ago, he enjoys making people angry in the community, he did help me when I was down though. But hes the type of guy that is nice nice nice then he gets his hits in, denies it goes back to being nice to fool you before getting more hits in. The being nice allows him to get more anger out of you than if he was just plain mean its also a way of being deceptive ie to fool people into thinking hes a good guy. I was wrong hes an emotional vampire! Im not annoyed with him or anything this isn't an attack, its the truth, ive delt with some nasty toxic people in my time im getting good at spotting them, they use kindness and empathy as a deceptive weapon these types! He will deny it and protest innocence but that very picture in his avatar is all the evidence you need, that's a troll job hes very proud of in the past,. (mainly a funny one that isn't very abusive granted) I don't want to break the rules but I thought it was important to not mislead people into thinking he was a good guy I was wrong I was fooled, I don't want people to be victimised by him because of my thread, where I got it wrong! You're talking about chem, right? And what avatar picture? Haven't been on for a long time so I am curious.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StagBeetleHarvister Posted May 1, 2018 Author Share Posted May 1, 2018 (edited) 15 hours ago, BluySY said: ok good for you so why do you do it? Theres some good people in the community theres people with mental health problems (not just me) this can be more damaging than it seems at face value. Some people in our community are suicidal on the edge etc. Are you going to continue it? We all saw your avatar b4 you changed it, it was of a nerd you used to troll, stop hiding your real personality behind fluffy animals and your fake niceness Edited May 1, 2018 by StagBeetleHarvister 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StagBeetleHarvister Posted May 1, 2018 Author Share Posted May 1, 2018 (edited) Pence you are a troll too hence why you back him up, also whats confusing about him having a picture of a troll job in his avatar that he was so proud of? How is that troll job not definitive evidence that he is a troll , not just a funny harmless troll but a truly bad low empathy sadistic angry human being that uses your own empathy, and kindness as a way to hurt you more? Hes a sicko! He will also try to make you feel sorry for him, "I hurt my back in judo my lifes ruined etc" but hes being trolling people since westwood online, long before he hurt his back, that's what that picture is from. His manipulative method is to be polite and nice once uve caught him out, meek and un - confrontational this is his manipulative method ie his whole game is to try and fool you into thinking hes not bad so he can get more hits in. So many vile people about these days! Whats worse is some of them mascaraed as good people. I know im not the best guy around but I don't enjoy hurting peoples feelings for pleasure, I don't try to do it day in day out, like these 2 and I do look out for other people in the community esp good ones. Anyway I wont go on about it (and im not bothered for myself but I have been in the past with these types and I try to fight them where I can) so its just a warning to all others that play and interact with BluSY! Pence is also a troll obviously he gets off on hurting your feelings. Watch out for these 2! Edited May 1, 2018 by StagBeetleHarvister 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myg Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 (edited) Thats a shame. Edited May 1, 2018 by Myg 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ferret Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 Chem, I'm going to give you another chance. Now with that being said, I need you to be on your very best behavior. The thread that you made was great, but the fact that you later turned onto everyone afterwards is what is not okay. You need to learn when you're splitting on people and ground yourself in some type of way. Whether it be simply stepping away from your computer, or even doing something as stretching your hands. Go outside your front porch for five minutes, set a timer or whatever, and then come back. You need to know when you need a break. Everyone was agreeing to your statement, including BluySY himself. You just took it the wrong way. The issue is your swapping sides a lot, everyone was with you until you turned onto everyone in the thread to make a personal jab and attack at them, passive aggressively. Whether you agree with that or not, that is exactly how it is perceived. Again, you did it even a second time a little bit afterwards. 1. I am aware of your issues, and I'm making sure to get you back on track. This is a community, and I want you to feel welcomed, which you very much are. But there are limitations on what you can and can't say on CnCNet. 2. Learn ways to realize when you're going to react outwards, in this case, it's typing. It's a great way to cope, but don't direct it to other people. Try writing! 3. I want you here. You're wanted here. I'm going to be watching you closely making sure you don't make any mistakes. Let's work this out, and work our way to a good light. This is not a joke, I'm telling you. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StagBeetleHarvister Posted May 1, 2018 Author Share Posted May 1, 2018 (edited) 1 hour ago, Ferret said: Chem, I'm going to give you another chance. Now with that being said, I need you to be on your very best behavior. The thread that you made was great, but the fact that you later turned onto everyone afterwards is what is not okay. You need to learn when you're splitting on people and ground yourself in some type of way. Whether it be simply stepping away from your computer, or even doing something as stretching your hands. Go outside your front porch for five minutes, set a timer or whatever, and then come back. You need to know when you need a break. Everyone was agreeing to your statement, including BluySY himself. You just took it the wrong way. The issue is your swapping sides a lot, everyone was with you until you turned onto everyone in the thread to make a personal jab and attack at them, passive aggressively. Whether you agree with that or not, that is exactly how it is perceived. Again, you did it even a second time a little bit afterwards. 1. I am aware of your issues, and I'm making sure to get you back on track. This is a community, and I want you to feel welcomed, which you very much are. But there are limitations on what you can and can't say on CnCNet. 2. Learn ways to realize when you're going to react outwards, in this case, it's typing. It's a great way to cope, but don't direct it to other people. Try writing! 3. I want you here. You're wanted here. I'm going to be watching you closely making sure you don't make any mistakes. Let's work this out, and work our way to a good light. This is not a joke, I'm telling you. xDDDDDDDDD This is really funny, I cant tell if im crazy or not xDDDDDDDDDDDDD Holy crap what just happened. Gas lighted by Ferret xDDDDDDDDDDDDD I think you didn't read it properly Ferret , I was wrong about BluSY he is not such a good guy after all, and I wasn't being passive aggressive, I was being aggressive without trying to hide it or rather direct (aggressive is too strong a word) BluSY is not the good guy I thought he was, hes a troll . I know this for certain im not imagining it. Thanks for your leniency none the less its much appreciated bro. You delt with that really well, but I wasn't doing what I used to do or allegedly used to do you jumped to that conclusion early which is totally understandable. This is a different situation to me and whites arguments. This is funny because I have a hard time telling whats real in real life im quite paranoid , so then when you added another layer of doubt to what I think reality is, it was quite the reality twister for me lol, but I realise now (I hope so anyway otherwise I am completely mad) that you thought I was jumping to the wrong conclusion about what people were saying when I wasn't , I havnt passive aggressively jabbed anyone in the thread ive directly made an accurate negative statement about BluSY . I was wrong originally when I was being nice about him. I havnt jabbed at anyone else in this thread just thumbed up their answers since I agree with them/ found them funny. Nariac and Myg have been very nice to me, they are top guys. I would never be passive aggressive to them, I like them. Edited May 1, 2018 by StagBeetleHarvister Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StagBeetleHarvister Posted May 1, 2018 Author Share Posted May 1, 2018 Anyway I hope BluSY will be a good guy from now on and not a troll I look forward to playing a game with him again, I will give him another chance for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StagBeetleHarvister Posted May 1, 2018 Author Share Posted May 1, 2018 (edited) Also Ferret you took down my other reply to Myg in his other thread when it was a perfectly non rule breaking answer, Myg had a very kind attitude to toxic people which shows intelligence understanding and good heart, I disagreed with it but that wasn't me being passive aggressive. I just have slightly different ideas about the subject matter, I have no idea why you took it down? Did you not read it and assumed it was me being passive aggressive? Edited May 1, 2018 by StagBeetleHarvister 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ferret Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 Alright, nevermind. See ya later. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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