That sucks mate. Hope to see you back on here soon if you really plan on quitting.
If you're bothered by what people say on the forums just don't talk to them.
Remember the goal here is to play a game; so don't get too caught up in drama.
I think PC power has a huge impact on the speed of the game for everyone, sadly.
Even stuff like mashing tab, or alt tab, can crash or slow the game for everyone.
yeah what i did was make a duplicate for it as a .map and leave the other as a .yrm.
if you edit it at all though you have to keep redoing this process, because final alert edits only the yrm file.
dont know if this is your problem tho